Please join Heller's Facebook Group, Random Acts of Kindness Because of Heller.

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On the day of Heller’s life celebration, his grandmother (Mapa) said these words:

“Many people have mentioned the fact that this tragedy (the loss of our sunshine) is heightened by the fact that it happened around Christmas, and they wonder how we will ever get through another Christmas.

Christmas is Christ’s day and we will continue to celebrate Jesus on that day! But December 22nd will be a day reserved for celebrating the life of Heller, and we will celebrate on that day (and perhaps a few days prior to) the way he would want us to. On that day, we will go out and make a change, do a good deed, and let the world know that a little boy once lived for that special reason.”

So, on December 22nd, Heller’s friends and family will honor his memory by spreading random (and deliberate) acts of kindness to others. We encourage you to go out and spread some kindness of your own.

Then, if you would like to, please leave a comment or send an email to BecauseofHeller@aol.com and share what you did, what you witnessed, or what others did for you so we may share Heller's impact with others. So we can remember that we are still celebrating his life!

Have You Received a Kindness Inspired by Heller?

If you received a card like the one below, and/or a kindness inspired by Heller, please share your story, so we may know how Heller's kindness touched the lives of others. You may leave a comment, or you may email your story to be posted on the blog to BecauseofHeller@aol.com.

Help this Site Grow Because of Heller

This year, we are making the choice to look forward to December 22nd! We cannot wait to share Heller's kindness with others. We know there will be difficult times as the date grows nearer, so we look forward to stopping by this site during those times to see what kindnesses are growing and to share stories of our kindnesses as well.

Please feel free to send an email to BecauseofHeller@aol.com with any suggestions, comments, thoughts, or ideas about how we can make December 22nd even more special "Because of Heller."

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Carry the Burden of Another. That is Kindness.

Lighten Someone's Burdon_Because of Heller 2010

December 2nd is here--ready or not. For many, this is a time of celebration and joy. For many others, it is a period of chaotic activity. Between working, shopping, decorating, entertaining, and maintaining a budget, emotional stress runs high.

For me, December brings a time of reflection. I tread carefully into the season. I never know when those powerless feelings of loss and anxiety will overwhelm me. I could be eyebrow high in decorations, whistling along to the latest holiday jingle, the smell of cookie dough in the air, when out of nowhere, those feelings engulf me.

I know that I am not alone.

Even before I lost my sunshine, there were burdens. Everyone carries at least a few.

This year, someone suffered a loss—a job, a loved one, a beloved pet, or even a familiar social environment (as in having moved away from home); someone is hungry; someone is sick; someone needs forgiveness; someone is homeless; someone is sad, angry, or bitter; someone is lonely.

Perhaps your burdens are light, or perhaps they are heavy, but you know that by taking on a few more of someone else’s, you will need to set aside a few of yours, and that is comforting.

Whatever your case may be, today’s kindness reminder is:

To carry the burden of another, that is kindness.

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