HUGS!

Heller was a hugger.  I once met with Heller’s kindergarten teacher (by her request) to discuss Heller’s behavior in class.  School had just begun and I was deeply concerned as we sat down.  She began, “Heller won’t stop hugging the children.” 

My breath released in part sigh of relief and part laughter.  “Is he hurting anyone?” I asked.  “Are they asking him not to?” 

She continued, “Well, no…” she clarified.  “In fact, they ask him to hug them.  He is just such a big boy, and some of the children in his class are so small.  I am afraid I will get complaints from the parents.” 

I must admit, Heller did not receive a reprimand from me.  I knew that he would never hurt anyone.  And, I also knew I would never stop him from hugging. 

Hugs come from love.  Physically and emotionally, hugs say, “I care about you.”  If you ask me, more people should hug and be hugged.

As other parents and children filed into the classroom for their individual conferences, a dark haired little girl came running to greet us.  “Heller!” she whooped.  “Can I have a hug?”  Her mother laughed beside her as Heller's hug lifted her from her feet.  “She talks about Heller and his hugs ALL THE TIME.” she told me. 

I sensed no complaints.

Kindness reminder:  Hug someone and ask someone to hug you.  XXXX