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On the day of Heller’s life celebration, his grandmother (Mapa) said these words:

“Many people have mentioned the fact that this tragedy (the loss of our sunshine) is heightened by the fact that it happened around Christmas, and they wonder how we will ever get through another Christmas.

Christmas is Christ’s day and we will continue to celebrate Jesus on that day! But December 22nd will be a day reserved for celebrating the life of Heller, and we will celebrate on that day (and perhaps a few days prior to) the way he would want us to. On that day, we will go out and make a change, do a good deed, and let the world know that a little boy once lived for that special reason.”

So, on December 22nd, Heller’s friends and family will honor his memory by spreading random (and deliberate) acts of kindness to others. We encourage you to go out and spread some kindness of your own.

Then, if you would like to, please leave a comment or send an email to BecauseofHeller@aol.com and share what you did, what you witnessed, or what others did for you so we may share Heller's impact with others. So we can remember that we are still celebrating his life!

Have You Received a Kindness Inspired by Heller?

If you received a card like the one below, and/or a kindness inspired by Heller, please share your story, so we may know how Heller's kindness touched the lives of others. You may leave a comment, or you may email your story to be posted on the blog to BecauseofHeller@aol.com.

Help this Site Grow Because of Heller

This year, we are making the choice to look forward to December 22nd! We cannot wait to share Heller's kindness with others. We know there will be difficult times as the date grows nearer, so we look forward to stopping by this site during those times to see what kindnesses are growing and to share stories of our kindnesses as well.

Please feel free to send an email to BecauseofHeller@aol.com with any suggestions, comments, thoughts, or ideas about how we can make December 22nd even more special "Because of Heller."

Thursday, December 9, 2010

The Path of Kindness

Help Others Find their Way_Because of Heller 2010

So far, my kindness reminders have been easy. This one, however, is a little bit more challenging. With Kindness Day and Christmas Day approaching ever so swiftly, our carefully coordinated schedules are becoming more inflexible. This is the busiest time of the year for most of us, and we can’t imagine breaking out of routine for some unplanned occurrence.

I know that I have encouraged deliberate acts of kindness. I’ve reminded you that “practice makes perfect.” I stand by this firmly. But sometimes, someone’s need for kindness comes as a surprise.

On this day, three years ago, our family had no idea that in just two short weeks, our path would change forever. As far as we knew, our schedule was fixed. We were headed in the direction of a beautiful holiday season.

On December 22, 2007, our family found itself on the Earth’s Edge. We were lost, sometimes unable to move in any direction.

On December 22, 2007, and for many many days that followed, inflexible schedules of kind hearted friends, and even strangers, suddenly became wide open. Fixed routines became bendable. Kindness surrounded us because so many individuals stepped out of their own way to help us find ours.

For those kindnesses, we found our way. For those kindnesses, we will forever be thankful.

So, today’s kindness reminder is one I learned by heart, and I keep in my heart. I hope you will do the same. Help others find their way by stepping out of your own.

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