“Jenny, can we play?” was a question I came to know very well. When Heller finally got the inevitable “yes” he had worked anywhere from thirty-minutes to two-days for, his face would light up and he would flash his brilliant smile. The rewards did not stop there. When Heller and I played, it was magical for both of us. Whether we built Lego families, played “cars with faces” and defeated the powerful evil Meme, or summoned giant monkeys, we had fun.
Not only did Heller and I learn to amuse each other, but he also loved to entertain our little brother, Nicholas. He would read books to Nicholas nonstop, and Heller didn’t have to be asked twice. He loved doing it. Heller always treated me and Nicholas with the utmost love and respect. He was always doing little things that simply made me feel good, like making pictures or Lego trophies, or having the “seamonkies” attack my bedroom.
Today’s kindness reminder is something that Heller truly knew the meaning of--respect and be kind to your siblings. Even though I sometimes have a tough time with it, each day I try to be more like Heller, treating Nicholas the best way possible. I encourage you to do something just to remind your brother or sister that you love them. You never know, you might even receive your very own Lego trophy as a result.
3 comments:
My heart is crying so hard right now. Aren't you very thankful for those memories. I wish your family peace and love this Christmas season. God bless.
Oh Jenny, I have tears in my eyes reading this.
Heller was truly sunshine and will be forever remembered and his life will be celebrated all over the world.
My love to you, your gorgeous mum, your dad and sweet Nicholas.
k8 xxx
You do show Nicholas kindness everyday...you are such a great big sister. The photo brought back memories...I think I gave those to Heller and you the first year you came into our lives (and hearts). I love you, Monkey.
Hugs, Mapa
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